The Turtle in Me

Recently a friend (that I think the world of) pointed out that there are times when I suddenly, inexplicably, vanish. And only a shell remains. She cited a specific incident that morning and challenged me, What happened? You were so alive, so vibrant, so engaged, and all of sudden, you disappeared? Where is your fight??? […]

Too Picky?

I am 34. And single. So the question has been posed a time or two by friends, family, and complete strangers, Are you too picky? Perhaps? Just a little? Too picky? Honestly, I don’t know the answer to that one. I know that I have finally stopped looking for a younger George Clooney, the captain […]

At the Movies: Secretariat

A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity to join a handful of bloggers on an absolutely-amazing-once-in-a-lifetime-kind-of trip. We flew out to sunny Los Angeles, stayed in some super swanky digs (oh how I love W Hotels), and rolled around Hollywood in a white Hummer that stretched as long as a football field. We […]

Can I Be Honest?

Really? Just for a minute? Painfully honest? As much as I loved Catalyst… I kind of hated it. You see, I was sick. And I was tired. I was sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. For three days people (speakers, friends, and practical strangers) poured into me. They spoke wisdom. They spoke truth. They spoke […]

My 10 Favorite Things About Catalyst 2010

First off, let me apologize for completely disappearing for the last week or so. It was never my intention to be away so long. But man, Catalyst came with a big ‘ol bang and stole every ounce of my energy. Okay, that’s enough of that… Last week I was in Atlanta, Georgia, for the Catalyst […]

Party Tricks

Last Sunday night I was hanging out with some friends. And the evening took a turn for the bizarre and we started sharing our party tricks. You know “party tricks” right? The oh-so-random talents that are sure to be crowd-pleasures? Headstands Backbends Crazy-weird-double-jointed-movements Singing Dancing Inside-out-eyelids It was so much fun. And it made me […]

Looking Back

I wrote the following post a year ago today. (One of my favorite things about blogging is how it becomes a living record of where you have been, what you have done, and what you felt.) In some ways I am still struggling with this sense of unease. And in some ways I am finally […]

The Company You Keep

Yesterday it struck me how critical it is to walk through life with inspiring friends. EVERY DAY I am inspired by one of my friends. They show me how to love. They encourage me to dream big dreams. They shift my focus from fear and inadequacy to possibility and potential. They are a constant reminder that […]

I Can’t Say Much But I Can Say This

I returned from Guatemala two weeks ago. Wow…two weeks…14 days…336 hours. In some ways it seems like just yesterday, in other ways it seems like a lifetime ago. On Friday, Shaun Groves sent an email to the Compasssion Bloggers Guatemala team. I’ve been laying low, reading your posts, praying for you from a distance but […]

Beautiful Things

Sometimes my singleness feels like a curse, a crazy-never-ending-not-sure-what-is-wrong-with-me-but-surely-it-is-something-obvious-why-won’t-anyone-tell-me curse. But lately instead of pouting, struggling, fighting through this season of singleness, I have been dwelling on the opportunities this season provides. I have been shifting from a posture of doubt, frustration, and impatience to a posture of trust, privilege, and hope. I have been […]